Seduction of Women! Being very different, all women still have one thing in common. They like to get compliments, receive flowers and feel special. This is what every pickup master should mind before starting a grand game. You can spend more or less time trying to seduce a definite lady, but you can’t ignore the main rules of the seduction process. If you are fed up with refusals, then these basic steps will change your life forever. Are you ready to enjoy endless attention from the women’s side? Then let’s go!
How to Get Acquainted with a Woman?
Generally, the whole process of seducing a woman can be divided into three major stages:
- Getting closer
Acquaintance is the first point on your list – to –do. You can’t seduce a lady who even does not know that you exist. Hence, you need to get acquainted with the girl who appeals to you. However, you should remember about self-confidence. No woman will pay attention to a guy who has low self-esteem and feels shy. Once you decide on this issue and take care of the nice look, you can go on.
Do not hesitate and come to the girl who you like. Feel confident and think about the phrase that will help you stand out in the crowd of other men. Watch the reaction to your words, and change your approach if necessary. It is important to make eye contact and show that she is special. It would be cool to pay her a few compliments and still do not sound too common. Another great way to attract the girl’s attention is to demonstrate a perfect sense of humor. Most ladies like good jokes, so being positive will be your great advantage.
You should be ready that not every girl will be eager to start communication with you due to some reason. Therefore, you are recommended to check the lady’s mood before coming to her. In case, she doesn’t demonstrate mutual interest, then leaves and does not waste time. These signals will help you make the next correct step:
- The girl constantly checks her phone and looks around
- Her friends ignore you and do not participate in the conversation
If you feel that leaving is the best thing you can do in a definite situation, then just go away. Avoid adding such phrases as “Sorry to disturb you”, or “I see you do not like me”. Just say: “I was glad to chat with you. Hope we will meet soon”. Smile even if you are very disappointed.
At the same time, if you see that the girl is laughing, supports eye contact, plays with her hair, and looks like she is enjoying talking with you, then you can do the next step.
How to Seduce the Woman?
Once you feel her interest, it is high time to get closer. Suggest the lady walk outside, or change the place to a more secluded one. Right now you need to show that you are not interested in being just friends. At this stage, you should be very careful and act step by step. Add:
- Closer and more confident look. Learn how to look at the girl correctly so that she doesn’t feel comfortable. Instead, she should feel your interest and desire.
- Verbal signs (hints, challenges). Be playful, and choose proper topics to discuss. Avoid being disrespectful, and always show that you are a gentleman in any situation.
- Tender touches. Master the art of touching and never go lower than the top of her arm or shoulder at once. Be active but tender.
Watch her reaction and adopt it. Gradual increasing of tension will intrigue the girl, while harsh actions will set a bad impression. That’s why another point to remember is a mystery. It means you should not tell everything to the girl. Instead, be mysterious so that she wants to know you better.
The Final Thoughts
Success on each stage (acquaintance, getting closer, and seduction) guarantees you the best outcome that you have been dreaming about. Remember that pickup as with any other art requires constant practice. Knowing the basic rules will help become successful with the girls who appeal to you. Be attentive and learn to feel women. A skill to recognize their signs is your great advantage in a grand game called “Seduction”.
George Wilson is a renowned life coach with over 10 years of experience in the field. He has helped thousands of people find love and build fulfilling relationships through his personalized coaching and advice.
George’s approach to dating is holistic and focuses on developing healthy habits and mindsets that lead to successful relationships.